I called Jess this morning at around 11:30am to wish him a Happy and Healthy! It went to voice mail, probably because I dialed it specifically to go to voice mail by calling a special number first that puts the call directly to someones cell answering device. I just didn't know what to say to him, so that's why I did that.
Haven't spoken to him on the phone since I left him crying on Sunday afternoon. He called me back 15 minutes later, and left me a message and told me to please come to his party tonight if I could. I could, but I won't. Then he sent me an email and in it, he wrote that he hopes I am having a "great day"! What the fuck!!! I thought long and hard about responding back. It took me 3 hours but I finally did. I didn't want to appear angry or distraught or confrontational. I want to keep things "nice" just in case he and I can salvage things. I want respect and I need to have self respect. Click on the jump to read what he wrote and then my response.