To Shave Or Not To Shave

I know I haven't posted in a number of weeks and, I've been meaning to. Not quite sure what direction to take my blog in. Back when I first started My Big Itch, I spent days on end discussing my ex and how I was feeling and what I was going through. For those of you who remember that and who are still with me... damn, it wasn't pretty, was it?  

Anyway, I just came across this video on You Tube. I promise I wasn't looking for something like this. But, I did take a minute and watch about 20 seconds of it. As I did, my mind began to wonder. I thought why is this manly man shaving all that beautiful fur? 

I don't know about you, but I like hairy or should I say, I prefer hairy vs shaved. The shaved down look is okay for some but for most I say, leave the fur! Enjoy!

The House Across From Westboro Baptist Is Getting a Rainbow Pride Paint Job Right Now

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The Heartbreaking Suicide Of Wilfried Knight

Wilfried Knight, whose prolific and award-winning work in gay porn began in 2004, has committed suicide.

The French performer had a series of career achievements over the past decade, including his roles in Lucas Entertainment’s Assassin and Raging Stallion’s Focus/Refocus, a 2010 GayVN Award for Performer of the Year, and a 2011 Grabby for Best Versatile Performer. As is often the case with performers of his stature, Knight’s warm, charming, and by all accounts hilarious sense of humor belied his rugged and intimidating physical presence (he was over 6’2″ and nearly 200 pounds).

Rumors as to the cause of death have been circulating throughout the afternoon, and The Sword can confirm that Knight did commit suicide over the weekend. His suicide follows the suicide of his partner just last month, the details of which Knight made public in a heartbreaking blog post last week.

Click on the link below to read Wilfried's sad blog entries.

Wifried Knight's heartbreaking recent post(s) from his blog

Knight’s suicide also follows the recent deaths of several other well-known figures from gay porn, including Arpad Miklos last month, director John Bruno and Colt Studios’ Karim in January, plus Josh Weston, Roman Ragazzi, Adam Faust, Corbin Fisher’s Sean, Tanner Hayes, and Erik Rhodes in 2012.

R.I.P. Wilfried. I know that you and your partner and now together, again!

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Official Gallup Survey: How Gay Is Your State?

This is somewhat cool (whether you believe in it's accuracy or not). It's an official survey conducted from June - December 2012 by Gallup that lists the individual States in the U.S. in their order of "gayness". Interesting, to say the least. Not sure how accurate it is, but nonetheless, it's a fun read for a few minutes. Check it out.  Click the link below to be taken to the article.

How Gay Is Your State? The Official U.S. Ranking

Robbie Rogers Comes Out

In a poignant post entitled "The Next Chapter..." on his personal website, 25-year-old U.S. soccer player Robbie Rogers has come out as gay and also stepped away from professional soccer.  Congratulations Robbie. I wish you all the best!

Below is a copy of Robbie Rogers post.


The Next Chapter…

Things are never what they seem… My whole life I have felt different, different from my peers, even different from my family. In today’s society being different makes you brave.  To overcome your fears you must be strong and have faith in your purpose.

For the past 25 year I have been afraid, afraid to show whom I really was because of fear. Fear that judgment and rejection would hold me back from my dreams and aspirations.   Fear that my loved ones would be farthest from me if they knew my secret.  Fear that my secret would get in the way of my dreams.

Dreams of going to a World Cup, dreams of The Olympics, dreams of making my family proud.  What would life be without these dreams? Could I live a life without them?

Life is only complete when your loved ones know you.  When they know your true feelings, when they know who and how you love. Life is simple when your secret is gone.  Gone is the pain that lurks in the stomach at work, the pain from avoiding questions, and at last the pain from hiding such a deep secret.

Secrets can cause so much internal damage. People love to preach about honesty, how honesty is so plain and simple.   Try explaining to your loved ones after 25 years you are gay. Try convincing yourself that your creator has the most wonderful purpose for you even though you were taught differently.

I always thought I could hide this secret. Football was my escape, my purpose, my identity. Football hid my secret, gave me more joy than I could have ever imagined… I will always be thankful for my career. I will remember Beijing, The MLS Cup, and most of all my teammates.  I will never forget the friends I have made a long the way and the friends that supported me once they knew my secret.

Now is my time to step away. It’s time to discover myself away from football.  It’s 1 A.M. in London as I write this and I could not be happier with my decision. Life is so full of amazing things. I realized I could only truly enjoy my life once I was honest.  Honesty is a bitch but makes life so simple and clear.  My secret is gone, I am a free man, I can move on and live my life as my creator intended. 

Aren't These The Words Of Someone Looking For A Relationship?

You bet they are!

Happy New Year Everyone!

Today is the first day of the year. It's a fresh start! It's an opportunity to start all over again and hopefully get it right. It's a second chance to live, love and be happy! Happy New Year Everyone!

A Single Man - The Movie

I saw the movie A Single Man last night. A really good movie.  The entire movie was so sad. I recommend that you see it. It's available on Netflix. It's got great vintage details which sexy, hot Director Tom Ford does very well.  It takes place in the 1960's. Everyone... and I mean everyone is beautiful! Be prepared to be sad!

Bounce Wit Me, Bounce Wit Me!

Bounce wit me, wit me, wit me wit me

Can you bounce wit me, bounce wit me, wit me wit me

Can you bounce wit me, bounce wit me, ge-gi-gi-gi-gi-gi

Can you bounce wit me, bounce wit me, ye-ye-yeah

R.I.P. To Those We All Knew Who Died In 2012!

As 2012 comes to an end, I remember all those celebrity's who died this past year. It always amazes me how many have died. It's sad to see them go, as they've always reminded me of happy times... and sad times, throughout my life. Their loss also keeps me very aware of my own inevitable mortality. (The following two videos include many of those lost between January and September).

There are also more who were not included and will most definitely not be forgotten. R.I.P. TO ALL!

Mr. Burns Explains The Fiscal Cliff

I can't figure it out; not sure if you can either! All I know is that I am fucking sick and tired of hearing about it already! Can't these guys just get it done? You know they will! Enough already of their last minute antics!

Rainy Days & "Mondays" Always Get Me Down

Photo Credit:  Jumps Over the Lazy Dog